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What food has the largest disparity between being really good or really bad, depending on who is making it?

· 2 min read

Question: What food has the largest disparity between being really good or really bad, depending on who is making it?

Answer: It depends on the chef. Some dishes are so delicate that one person's culinary masterpiece can become another's culinary disaster.

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I've had so really fantastic scallops and some really horrible scallops

That was my thought. I've had some really great scallops and I keep trying to chase that dragon right into some weird rubbery bullshit. I just gave up on them completely.

Make them yourself, key is to get them as dry as possible before cooking then cook them on hot enough heat that you can get away with only flipping them once when they are halfway done.

Pork chop, can really change whether you are eating cardboard for dinner or not.

Okra. I thought I hated it until someone made it for me and actually knew what they were doing.

AR colleague annoyed that I am no longer doing the “hard” part of her job

· 5 min read

I am a Finance Manager in a small‑medium company and have just passed my first year here. My colleague, the one handling AR, has been with the company for 4 years (our appraisal was in August) and has been doing the usual sales posting, recording payments, sending SOAs.

However, around the time of appraisal, I found out that she has NOT been chasing for payment that has been unpaid from 6 months to more than a year, some even up to 2 years overdue!! When I first caught wind of it, she initially said that she HAS been chasing them and taken action, but could not answer when I asked her, “why haven’t they been changed from term customers to COD then?”

I’m just wondering, isn’t it basic SOP that customers who keep piling debt should NOT be allowed to continue to have term payments with us? But no, she didn’t do so as “so and so will get mad at me” (she’s referring to her sales’ buddies who always pay for her lunch 2‑3 times a week, that’s another story).

I told her firmly that she had to take action and gave her examples on what to do. She managed to follow my steps for the debts that were within a year, like: ask the salesman to chase for the unpaid invoices, block the shipping function (prevent stock from going out) until the customer makes payment, send final payment reminder that we will change their 30‑days term to COD until payment has been received fully.

As for those that had been outstanding for more than a year, I asked her what we should do. She didn’t know and she argued that, “Our boss never asked me to chase to that extent so I just left it…”. I could feel my blood starting to boil.

Then she further added that for some, she didn’t know how to write beyond the final payment reminder as her English was not strong (English isn’t her first language). So, I told her to include me into the final payment emails and I’ll handle it from there. Thereafter she can manage those in the future once I came up with templates and steps. She agreed.

3 months passed with me doing non‑finance stuff by having to apply legal recourse online, going to state courts, OT‑ing just to read up on how to write affidavits, letter of authorisation for myself to represent the company, applying for a to‑z of legal forms before I can actually go to court and from those list of debtors that had unpaid invoices, I managed to collect the 70% value as of today. I was overjoyed and relieved and I updated my boss today on the progress and he was happy as well. He asked me questions on how I did it and I just simplified the process and told him what I did. Never once did I bring up that “my colleague didn’t do XYZ, so I had to take it on.” It was just a conversation of pure relief and joy that I had done something new & relatively foreign and had an unexpected positive outcome from it.

However, I caught her scowling at me as I sat back down at my desk after chatting with the boss about the successful debt collections, but I acted like I didn’t see it.

After being sat at my desk for about 10 minutes to control my happiness, I calmly told her that she could now take over the task as I would send her an SOP and the template emails as well as supporting documents for other debt collection customers – the balance 30 %… to which she replied, “Why can’t you just do it?? Why should I do this when I’ve never chased payment to this extent before?” I’ve never seen her lose her cool before because she’s really one of those pretty even‑tempered people in the office. I assured her she can still CC me when she sends these emails over just in case the customer becomes nasty.

I’m confused… if you were my colleague, would it feel like I was gloating or rubbing the successful debt collection in your face? Is there anything I can do to / should do / say to my colleague?

My hater coworker weaponized cookies 🍪😅

· 3 min read

I work as a server in a restaurant, and let me tell you, the drama is real.
Brenda—yes, we’ll just call her Brenda for the sake of simplicity—has been a dedicated hater since day one. She’s got a serious hatred for me that’s almost like a twisted love affair. From the moment she started at our joint, she’s been pulling petty stunts: calling me by my official name while everyone else uses my nickname, and doing the same to herself. Classic “shorten your own name to make yourself look cooler” move.

When the whole crew is hanging out in the back, she makes sure to say goodbye to everyone except me. She watches me like the FBI, tracking every move. I’ve gotten used to the constant micro‑aggressions, but nothing prepared me for the COOKIE INCIDENT.

One day, Brenda (aka “Cookie Monster”) shows up with an entire stash of cookies. She starts running around, forcing them onto everyone with the intensity of a food‑delivery drone.
“TRY 1, DID U TRY 1?!! EAT IT!!” she yells, and everyone chews like they’re terrified of death. Meanwhile, she offers them to everyone except me. Then she goes full‑on bossy:
“DID EVERYONE GET A COOKIE??!! GIRLLL, YOU KNOW I DIDN’T. THAT WAS THE WHOLE POINT.”

The passive‑aggressive cookie distribution sent me to the brink of a nervous breakdown. I’m not saying it was the end of the world, but it was definitely the end of my patience.

Anyway, shout out to Cookie Monster Brenda 🦸‍♀️

My Co‑Worker’s “Friendship” Is a Full‑Time Mystery Show

· 4 min read

“She’s the first person I’ve ever met who behaves like this.”Original Poster


The Setup

So I landed a new gig about eight months ago. I didn’t really click with anyone at first—typical first‑month office vibe. Then I met Samantha (no, that’s not her real name, but it rolls off the tongue), and we started hanging out. Soon we added Two Guys (yes, their names are literally “Two Guys” on the team roster), and the four of us became the office lunch squad.

The scene was set:

  • Samantha – the “girl who always has her phone in hand.”
  • Two Guys – the “boring but friendly” guys who are actually, well, boring.
  • Me – the unsuspecting observer.

She Literally Quit Over Pizza The Saltiest Workplace Meltdown Ever

· 2 min read

Title Says It All: When Lunch Schedules Become Life-Altering Decisions

Some workplace dramas involve promotions, restructuring, or epic blunders. This one? It was about pizza. Plain, glorious, end-of-week, “thanks for the good numbers” pizza.

The Setup: Easiest Job Ever, Sweet Perks

OP worked at a salt production facility. (Yes, this detail becomes painfully poetic later.) The job? Put salt into bags. Good pay for the area. Music allowed. Solid benefits. Chill schedule.

Enter Sues: about 63, working part-time Monday through Wednesday. Everyone was kind to her. Expectations low. Pay high (relatively). Life = comfy.