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AITA for Taking My Cat to My New Home?

· 3 min read

A Tale of Cat‑astrophic Family Drama

The Feline Fiasco​

Picture this: You’re about to tie the knot, the future spouse’s name is on your lips, and you’re still living with your parents. On top of that, you’ve got a 6‑year‑old, self‑named Casper who’s basically the family’s unofficial mascot. Casper was a kitten, a gift from your aunt, and you’ve treated him like royalty—diet, litter, name training, cuddle sessions, and a lifetime of arguments with the parents who thought he was a “pest.”

Fast forward to the week before the wedding. You’re packing boxes for the fiancé’s place. The cat tree is the final piece of the puzzle. Your younger sister (17, obviously in a “I‑need‑my‑own‑cat” mood) bursts into a full‑on cry‑fit because you’re taking the cat tree but not the cat. The parents, already tired of the cat drama, side‑with‑her, turning the situation into a full‑blown family feud. You’ve declared, “Casper is my gift, I raised him, and the cats are creatures of habit.” The parents are still on the fence, the sister is still sobbing, and you’re left wondering: Am I the asshole for trying to keep your furry friend with you?

The Reddit Comments (Re‑imagined)​

Comment 1
“If your family wants a cat, they can get their own. This cat is yours. Cats will settle better moving home with you than thinking you’ve abandoned them.”
Reality Check: Cats do indeed prefer their owner’s company, not the who‑owns‑this‑room argument.

Comment 2
“NTA. Your parents can get your sister her own cat if she’s responsible enough to take care of one.”
Reality Check: The law is on your side, but the family still needs to learn how to share the cat‑care love.

Comment 3
“Get your aunt to confirm Casper was a gift for you. End of issue.”
Reality Check: If you can get a notarized “Cat‑Ownership” certificate, you’ll have a paper trail.

Comment 4
“Cats are used to the person who cares and feeds them.”
Reality Check: The cat’s loyalty is to you, not the house, so move him out of the parents’ domain, but keep him in your heart.

Comment 5
“NTA but I suggest moving him out when no one is home. Soon.”
Reality Check: Timing is everything. The best move is to relocate Casper during a low‑stress window—preferably when the parents are on vacation.

TL;DR​

You’re not the asshole. Casper is legally yours, and cats are person‑attached creatures. The real problem is that your family is having a cat‑tastrophe over a furry sidekick. The fix? Secure a “Cat‑Ownership” paper trail, give your sister a hamster if she wants a pet, and move Casper during a quiet weekend. If all else fails, just bring a giant stuffed animal that looks like Casper and let the parents have their “pet” in the meantime. 🐾💍🤣